How to Stop Chasing Security and Start Creating Alignment in Life and Work
In our quest for security—whether in our careers, relationships, or personal choices—many of us fall into a cycle that feels safe but often leaves us unfulfilled. I recently experienced a hard lesson in this area: a job I wanted fell through, leaving me in a bind. Forced to quickly take a role that didn’t align with my values, I was reminded that chasing security, rather than alignment, only leads to stagnation. In this post, I’ll share why it’s crucial to stop grasping for stability and start building a life that feels aligned with your true self.
The Comfort Trap of Security
For those of us in environments like union jobs, security can feel like a comforting blanket. But sometimes, that security is an illusion. It's not just about job types—this false sense of stability can show up anywhere, whether it's a secure role, a familiar relationship, or a well-worn routine. Reflect on the things in your life that feel safe but may be limiting you from true growth.
Why Alignment Matters More Than Security
Alignment means choosing what resonates with your values and dreams, even when it's a tougher path. Choosing a job because it fits your schedule, for example, or partnering with someone because they share your long-term goals—these are choices that align with your true self. When you align with your core values, life becomes a journey of intention, not desperation.
Actions Toward Alignment
Reflect Daily: Every day, take a moment to align yourself with your goals. Ask yourself: “Is this leading me toward the life I want?”
Choose Intentionally: When making decisions, prioritize alignment over comfort.
Be Proactive, Not Reactive: Life is too precious to leave to chance. Direct your energy toward creating, rather than chasing, the life you want.
Conclusion:
Chasing security leads to a cycle of dissatisfaction and fear. To truly thrive, embrace alignment over safety, intention over comfort. When you do, you’ll find that the life you want is already within reach—you just have to claim it.
